Can Children Receive Communion? Infant vs. First Eucharist

Understanding the Church’s Teaching + How to Celebrate Their First Eucharist Beautifully

For Catholic parents, godparents, and faith-filled women of all ages, questions often arise around the sacraments—especially the Eucharist. One that comes up again and again: “Can children receive Communion?” It’s a good question, and one that dives deep into the rich traditions, theology, and pastoral care of the Church.

In this post, we’ll break down what the Catholic Church teaches about children and Communion, the difference between infant Communion and First Eucharist, and how to celebrate this beautiful milestone. Plus, we’ll highlight a few meaningful gift ideas from Darling & Divine to make their First Communion truly unforgettable.

What Is the Eucharist?

Before we dive into children receiving the Eucharist, let’s lay the foundation. The Eucharist is one of the seven sacraments of the Catholic Church and is considered the “source and summit of the Christian life.” At every Mass, Catholics believe that through transubstantiation, the bread and wine become the Body and Blood of Jesus Christ.

It’s not a symbol—it’s a living reality. And receiving Jesus in the Eucharist is an intimate moment of communion with God that is both sacred and transformative.

Can Infants Receive Communion?

In the Eastern Catholic Churches, the answer is yes. In fact, it’s common practice.

Infants in many Eastern rites (like the Byzantine Catholic Church) receive Baptism, Confirmation (Chrismation), and Eucharist all at once, often in their first few months of life. During the Divine Liturgy, the priest gives a tiny portion of the consecrated Eucharist—both Body and Blood—to the infant.

This practice may surprise Roman Catholics, but it reflects the ancient tradition of the Church and underscores the belief that grace is not limited by age or understanding.

Why Doesn’t the Roman Catholic Church Do This?

In the Latin (Roman) Rite, children usually receive First Communion around the age of reason, typically considered to be around 7 years old. The Catechism of the Catholic Church says:

“Children must go to the sacrament of Penance before receiving Holy Communion for the first time. To receive Communion, one must have sufficient knowledge and be carefully prepared so as to understand the mystery of Christ according to his capacity.”
(CCC 1457)

This means that in the Roman Catholic tradition, a child should have an understanding—albeit simple—of who Jesus is and what the Eucharist means.

Why the Age of Reason Matters

The Church emphasizes freedom, intention, and understanding when it comes to receiving the Eucharist. While an infant can physically receive the Body and Blood of Christ, a child of 7 can do so with an interior disposition that aligns with the sacred act.

That’s why preparation for First Holy Communion often involves religious education, attending Mass regularly, and going to Confession. It’s not just about knowing the rules—it’s about forming a heart that recognizes Jesus in the Eucharist.

First Holy Communion: A Milestone in the Faith Journey

First Holy Communion is often one of the most memorable moments in a young Catholic’s life—and for good reason. It marks the first time a child fully participates in the Eucharistic sacrifice.

It’s a day often marked by family, celebration, and the wearing of white—symbolizing purity and newness in Christ.

How to Celebrate First Communion Beautifully (and Faithfully)

Whether you're a godmother, an aunt, a sister, or a friend, you can play a meaningful role in the life of a child receiving their First Communion. Here are some beautiful, intentional ways to celebrate:

1. Attend the Mass

There’s something sacred about showing up. By simply being there for the First Communion Mass, you witness a sacred milestone and offer spiritual support. If you're a godparent, your presence is especially significant—you promised to help raise them in the faith.

2. Give a Meaningful, Lasting Gift

This isn’t just a regular birthday or holiday—this is a sacrament. Consider giving a gift that anchors them in faith, beauty, and identity in Christ.

✨ Our Favorite First Communion Gifts from Darling & Divine:

Dainty Cross Necklace – $48
A delicate gold-filled necklace that’s hypoallergenic, non-tarnish, and perfect for a child beginning their lifelong walk with Christ.
Herringbone Slink Layering Chain – $42
A beautiful gift for older girls who are ready to build their jewelry collection with faith-rooted elegance.
Eucharist Necklace - $49

What About Teenagers or Adults Receiving Their First Communion?

It’s never “too late” to receive the Eucharist.

Many people come into the Catholic Church through RCIA (Rite of Christian Initiation for Adults), and receive Baptism (if needed), Confirmation, and First Eucharist at the Easter Vigil. This powerful night marks their full initiation into the Church.

Teens who may have missed receiving their First Communion earlier can go through preparation through parish programs. Whether 7 or 70, the Church welcomes every soul to the altar with open arms.

Communion Isn’t the Finish Line—It’s the Starting Point

It’s tempting to treat First Holy Communion like a graduation. We dress up, take photos, and have cake—and while all of that is wonderful, it’s only the beginning.

Encourage the child to:

Keep going to Mass every Sunday
Start a habit of prayer, like the Rosary
Learn more about the saints
Make Confession a regular part of their faith life

And as a supportive adult in their life, you can model that consistency too.

Infant Communion vs. First Eucharist: What’s the Bottom Line?

Here’s a side-by-side breakdown of how these practices differ:

Topic	Infant Communion	First Eucharist (Latin Rite)
Tradition	Eastern Catholic (Byzantine, Melkite, etc.)	Roman Catholic
Age of Reception	Infancy (often same day as Baptism & Confirmation)	Around age 7 (age of reason)
Preparation	No formal catechesis needed	Religious education and Confession required
Frequency	Can continue receiving regularly	Begins regular participation in the Eucharist
Emphasis	Emphasis on grace through sacraments	Emphasis on understanding and conscious participation

Frequently Asked Questions

❓ Can a child receive Communion without Confession?

In the Roman Catholic Church, no. Confession precedes First Communion to ensure the soul is in a state of grace.

❓ What if a child has disabilities that affect understanding?

The Church, in her pastoral heart, says that as long as the child can distinguish the Eucharist from regular food—even in a non-verbal or limited intellectual way—they can be prepared to receive the sacrament.

❓ Can I give my goddaughter Communion jewelry even if I'm not Catholic?

Absolutely. If you support her faith journey, a beautiful cross necklace or rosary is a touching way to affirm her decision and surround her with love.

Final Thoughts

The Eucharist is more than just a rite of passage—it’s a divine invitation. Whether it’s offered to an infant in the East or a 7-year-old girl in the West, Jesus meets us there with His full presence and full love.

And when we celebrate First Holy Communion, we’re celebrating more than a child’s first reception—we’re celebrating their place at the eternal table.

As you help the special little ones in your life prepare for this day, let them know: You belong here. You are chosen. You are loved.

And if you're looking for something to mark the moment with beauty and intention, we’ve got you covered at Darling & Divine.